Funny, I still turn to my fellow Eye moms and their blog posts daily but I have not returned the favor.
Not sure exactly why.
A combination of things I imagine.
Two little ones are exhausting. Amazing but exhausting. By the end of the day I can barely muster enough energy to tidy up and get to bed to start it all over again in the morning.
Things on the Eye front have been status quo. Eye pressures run borderline high. Patching is tolerable. That's it. Tolerable. I worry daily that her glaucoma is lurking in the corner. But that is nothing new.
The eye is slowly slipping into part of who we are. Some days are great. Other days I feel sorry for myself. Hot, sticky days when I wish I could take the kids to run in the sprinkler all day I can't for fear of a quick splash costing valuable patching time. Or worse, a lost contact. It's not natural to worry about things like that. To have anxiety over simple childhood activities. But it's our reality. Maybe I'm feeling a bit more bummed cause it's summer and so much of summer revolves around water. Do I take them swimming? If I do that means no contact and no patching. Is it worth that? Everything always revolves around inserting/removing lenses and patch time. Or at least it feels that way. Tomorrow we want to go to an amusement park as a family. Do we patch or skip? If we patch I risk having a meltdown from the gazillion of stares she will get. If we don't patch I feel the anxiety of a lost day. Sigh.
Even with those frustrations we are enjoying every day.
We have had many adventures so far this summer.
Feeding ducks |
Milking cows |
Love this place! |
Riding horses. |
We've visited our local beautiful James' Gardens for feeding ducks and blowing bubbles and just being silly by rolling down hills.
Slow down Nicole! |
A break for snacks in the gazebo |
The ducks loved their Cheerios! |
Two of my troublemakers. |
Posing in front of the mountain |
Daddy's in heaven...first time on a roller coaster for Lilia! |
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Priceless. =) |
Winning a teddy bear. |
Hugs |
Nicole's fav. part. |
Oh and I would be amiss to not mention Lilia's very first ever ballet recital!
What is it that I was suppose to be doing? |
Oh and somewhere we do take Nicole lensed and patched....the wading pool!
Cooling off |
And to top off the last of our days off together we decided to take the kids to Niagara Falls for the weekend. It was such a wonderful time together, full of many many memories. We stayed at Great Wolf Lodge which is always a hit with the kids.
Enjoying the butterflies |
Pointing out the butterflies |
First (of many) visits to Niagara Falls! |
I love Great Wolf Lodge! |
Should I or shouldn't I? |
Here I go! |
Believe it or not Nicole finished that plate of breakfast! |
Lilia's favourite part of breakfast...Nicole is not so sure! |
We had a wonderful time. Just like old friends getting together...kids playing, chatting over pizza, and the least it was about was the eye. Just two families spending time together. It was lovely.
Giggling like old pals |
Peekaboo |
Fun! |
These American slides are faster than the ones back home ;) |
The two that all the fuss is about. |
Refreshing popsicles. |
Checking it all out in person! Who are these crazy Canadians on my bridge? This is fun! |
True Serendipity |
The sign of a fantastic trip. |
Thank you to all my Mommas who help me survive the hairy days and offer consistent kindness and support! You are all so fabulous....and thank you to Ms. See the Distance for opening your home to us! We had a blast!
So.... I will say it again. I am jealous. But also happy for you guys. Very cool!
ReplyDeleteI can't believe how big your girls have grown in the last six months. They are adorable...
I feel for you and the worrying about days off. It's so much a part of life to patch, and for you deal with the contact, and yet it messes with our lives and what we do in a day.
Will be praying for Nicole's upcoming appointment and her pressure reading.
P.S. Love your instagram pics!
SO much fun!! I love the roller coaster pics. I am SO jealous of the imom visit. You all are too cute and I know it was a blast.
ReplyDeleteI know exactly how you feel about the eye consuming plans. The water is stressful. The heat makes days so much harder with the patch. I find myself turning down play dates because we will have to be in the car 20 minutes and I don't have that time to lose! It is hard to find the balance between living life and patching, I think.
Nicole looks so much older in these pics, by the way!
LOVE the post! LOVE LOVE LOVE all the pics! Lilia with the butterfly is beautiful. Nicole at the splash park is too funny. I love the three little lady butts running up the bridge!!! We are so going to meet up at Great Wolf Lodge next time... I can't wait! Till then I will be stalking you on Instagram, haha. We imoms rock, Happy Patching!
ReplyDeleteWonderful post! Nicole is looking quite grown up these days and Lilia is adorable. I love the recital pic and Nicole going under the waterfall. Of course I am super jealous of your imom meet up.
ReplyDeleteSummer with the heat is tough, I agree with Melissa. I have been staying in most days just because it is so hard to go places with two of them, by myself, and be the contact police.
Your instagram pics are awesome! I will definitely be continuing to stalk you. :)
Too bad Mommas that we can't all meet up somewhere. You never know...maybe one day!! =)
ReplyDeleteYeah, seriously, could we meet up!? One day one day!
ReplyDeleteThis was definitely a much needed picture post! The girls are beautiful. So glad you guys are having an awesome summer!!
I believe you are close enough to Great Wolf Lodge for the next meetup!! ;)
DeleteThey look so happy in all the photos! Love the memories you captured! Linked to your blog from Lucy's and going to catch up some more on your sweet family:)
ReplyDeleteJust caught back up on your blog. I here you with the patching. Is so hot I just want to take Carson out and let him go play in the pool or the sprinkler, but cant because the patch comes off. Sooooooo frustrating!
ReplyDeleteJennifer